The fear of rejection…
Waiting at your desk hoping the phone will ring….
Trying to make your stories sound SUPER interesting, without looking desperate…
All of these emotions may sound like the thoughts of a teenage girl, but in fact these are some of the everyday feelings of PR practitioners all over the country. Pitching in theory is simple… make a few phone calls, send an email here or there; but in reality navigating the ever-changing media landscape can be as tricky as dating.
That coveted hit can sometimes feel like a soul mate; and most recently I thought that I had found mine with the Today Show ( I know, everyone wants to date her -_-) I pitched and I got a read receipt! And then I spoke on the phone with the producer… for like 10 minutes. We laughed and were getting along so nicely. Before we got off the line she told me that she wanted to pencil in a date. It was amazing everything was falling into place! It was a dream come true.
Then as quickly as the interest had come up, it fizzled and fell flat. A week after patiently waiting for a phone call, I get a one sentence note, declining the interview and telling me to stay in touch. Stay in Touch ?!? What had gone wrong? Why couldn’t she just be up front and tell me that “she’s just not that into me?”
After I melted down, I came to the realization that there are many obstacles to overcome before a segment actually gets booked. Like the dating world, there are factors everyone should keep in mind before hitting send or picking up the phone:
Sometimes there are just TOO many fish in the sea …
Having a stellar pitch is only half the battle. When it comes to national morning shows, keep in mind that there are many different competing brands reaching out to the same producer – at the same time – at a rapid rate. It’s important to make yourself stand out for the right reasons.
Save the creative fluffy writing for your press releases and Facebook pages. Pitches should always be short and straight-forward. This holds true for subject line as well. If you have an interview opportunity with Madonna put it out front and center. This isn’t the place to be cryptic. Messages like “A Chance to Chat With the Material Girl” will get you nowhere.
Play Hard to Get… No one likes a STALKER…
Do you want to be called five times an hour, every hour a week straight? Didn’t think so.
Reporters can smell blood in the water. If you seem too desperate or just annoying when they are on deadline – they won’t want to work with you and they won’t care about your great pitch. There’s a fine line between aggressive and obsessive, so take it easy – and keep it cool – when following up.
Executive Producers (EP) can be just like disapproving parents…
No matter what the booking producer says or feels, keep in mind that nothing happens with out the EP’s approval. Like a parent they have the power to put a stop to any budding relationship. Their job is to ensure segments flow into the larger program while following the guidelines / ethics of the show. So, if you get to this point be sure to be honest and upfront about your spokesperson and client message. Trying to hide your real motives, won’t do you any good in the long run.
Meddling Friends aren’t as bad as the Sales and Marketing Teams…
Friends have great intentions, but their opinions on your relationship can sometimes be skewed due to their own motives. This holds true for the sales department of shows too. Be clear – they don’t always care about your great story. Their job is to make money for the show, so they can become a road-block between you and the producer.
If you are lucky your story will be good enough to get past this meddling group, but when pitching national media be prepared to ante up in most cases if you expect any brand messages to be included. Limited budget? If so, just make sure you gauge client expectations. You may need to change the messages or even lower the bar when it comes to your media targets.
Pitching national broadcast can be tricky, but like the dating game you have to be in it to win it, so be confident and get our there with your best pick up lines!
Naomi Borno is a senior account executive in the Compass Media division of MSL New York. Her experience includes media relations and strategy for fashion, beauty, entertainment, food, liquor, travel, electronics, and lifestyle clientele. She currently works on brands including Pepto-Bismol, Metamucil, Crest 3D White, and My Black is Beautiful.


















